Better notes and bans (#14228)

Co-authored-by: Chief-Engineer <119664036+Chief-Engineer@users.noreply.github.com>

Tools/erase_user_data.py

@@ -150,7 +150,7 @@ def clear_server_ban(cur: "psycopg2.cursor", user_id: str):
 DELETE FROM
     server_ban
 WHERE
-    user_id = %s
+    player_user_id = %s
 """, (user_id,))
 
 
@@ -172,7 +172,7 @@ def clear_server_role_ban(cur: "psycopg2.cursor", user_id: str):
 DELETE FROM
     server_role_ban
 WHERE
-    user_id = %s
+    player_user_id = %s
 """, (user_id,))