make suicide actions require confirming (#24609)

* add ActionAttemptEvent

* add ConfirmableAction compsys

* make suicide actions confirmable

* use new trolling techniques

* better query and dirty them

* death

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Co-authored-by: deltanedas <@deltanedas:kde.org>

Content.Shared/Actions/Events/ActionAttemptEvent.cs

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+namespace Content.Shared.Actions.Events;
+
+/// <summary>
+/// Raised before an action is used and can be cancelled to prevent it.
+/// Allowed to have side effects like modifying the action component.
+/// </summary>
+[ByRefEvent]
+public record struct ActionAttemptEvent(EntityUid User, bool Cancelled = false);